Tuning Your Mind For Success
By
Bayo Ogunmupe
Learn how to tune your mind for the
attainment of your desires. You need to tune your mind in order to attain
success because human beings behave not in accordance with the truth, but in
accordance with the truth as they perceive it to be.
The way you perceive reality
determines your chances of success. A faulty perception of life is that seeing
is believing. The truth is because you can’t see it does not mean it isn’t
there. The reason we didn’t see opportunities is not because they aren’t there,
it is because we haven’t determined what we are looking for. Rather than wait
to see before believing, we must first set our goals before reality changes.
When you set a goal, your mind – brain functioning together, will work to your
advantage to attain your goal.
For success, set your goal first and
the relevant information will get through when you know and believe what you
want, you start seeing results. Actually believing is seeing. We only pay
attention to what is of value to us. The reason you don’t see opportunities is
that we limit ourselves by the way we think. You must be willing to think out
of the box, be willing to think outside of your limitations.
Another reason we fail to see
opportunities is because we have low self-esteem. When you have good
self-esteem, you think you can handle anything. Sometimes, the information we
need comes through others. If our self-esteem is high, information can come in
the form of a suggestion or even criticism. But if you have poor self-esteem,
you will not be able to accept suggestions or criticism from others. Your
responses will be defensive. The error you make is this; when you accept only
your own opinion, you shut out everything else. Poor self-esteem prevents you from
accepting other people’s opinion.
It isn’t because you are stupid that
you don’t know how to accomplish something. It is because you are conditioned
due to a blockade you’ve formed, not to see. As a businessman, you have a
tendency to lock onto jaded approaches. As you allow your thoughts or habits to
build up in your mind, you act out these beliefs, it becomes self-fulfilling
prophesy.
Arising from this is the sure-enough
principle. Your level of expectation determines the outcome. Once you lock onto
an opinion of how things are going to come about, you go out and create the
situation or gather information to bolster your perceived idea or notion and
bring it to reality, and sure-enough, you get what you expect. This is called
the sure-enough principle. Thus, self-talk and visualization reinforce an
already existing self-image or belief you have about yourself. Your self-image
controls how you perform or your performance reality. So the main reason for
changing your image when you are not performing to your expectation is that
your self-image controls your performance.
However, attitudes help or hinder
your success. What are attitudes? Attitudes are dominant beliefs. The
evaluation of an attitude is always in relation to your goal in life. If you
are an introvert, being an introvert in itself is neutral. But if your goal is
to be a public speaker, your attitude would not support your goal. If you want
to change your attitude, all you need to do is to make new affirmations
regarding your present objective. Visualization is another method of altering
your attitudes. Picture yourself as being a person with the emotional response
required for your success. Visualize yourself seeking out and attaining your
goals, your habits of thoughts are determined by your subconscious, you need to
jettison habits not in conformity with present goals and aspirations.
You move toward what you picture, in
essence, we are teleological; meaning we physically, emotionally and
psychologically create through activity and movement what it is we hold as a
picture in our minds. As long as we hold the picture, we are drawn towards that
picture. We can control our imagery through directed self-talk and
visualization, you must first picture your goal in the mind before you can
attain it through action. Your teleological mechanism knows exactly where you
are in time and space in relationship to the target. Keeping your eyes on the
end result stimulates the creature energy in you, driving you to attract
people, material things, new books, seminars to create the picture in your
mind. But forcing change creates failure. So the only way is through self-talk
and visualization.
You can only rely on promises to
yourself to become a winner. This is simply a matter of keeping your mind off
what you don’t want and keeping your mind always on what you want. Don’t spend
your time imaging the accursed, rather go towards your goal, never go by past
track records; every moment is a new beginning. Successful people look at what
they want and move towards it. Ultimately, what you want is to feel good.
When you develop a philosophy of life
and do your best to be true to that philosophy all soon come into place, the
questions of what you want are easily answered. Then you will draw the people
you want to yourself. You will know what you want to do in your work, in your
relationships, because everything and everyone necessary to support your
philosophy will come into your life. Also, you must be willing to change your
philosophy if it does not support you in being all you can be.
When you consciously use self-talk
and imagery, you deliberately throw your system out of order, thus, you must
drive yourself strongly, perhaps obsessively into whatever you are affirming,
and imaging. For success, you must use the concepts in every area of your life,
you must be obsessive about everything concerning your success. That means you
do not steal from one part of your life to fulfill another. Start by knowing
where you want to go and begin to talk to yourself about it. What you tell
yourself will determine how far you will go and how long it will take you to
get there. Self-talk combined with imagery are the most powerful tools you can
use to go from where you are right now to where you want to be. This is how you can fine-tune your mind for
success.